Sterling Silver Submissive Day Collar 925 Sterling Heart Lock and Byzantine Chainmail Choker BDSM Slave Collar


Shipping to United States: $8.00

Make your submissive feel truly treasured with a 100% solid sterling silver collar!

This striking, yet discreet day collar was crafted with the finest quality sterling silver rings, woven carefully by hand in the intricate and elegant Byzantine chainmaille weave. Measuring just 6 mm thick, this style of chain makes for a perfect "in polite company" collar, while still being sturdy enough for 24/7 wear (yes, even in the shower ;-)).

The collar closes in front with a gorgeous silver heart shaped padlock, made exclusively for Brain of Jen from solid .925 sterling silver and features beveled corners and a seamless edge for both comfort and durability. The lock measures about 20 mm across, and comes with two sterling silver heart keys.

Professional engraving for your lock is also available! If you'd like to personalize your collar, you can contact me via the "Ask a question" button near the top of this page, or by email at brainofjen [!at]

Shipping from Canada

Processing time

2 weeks

Estimated shipping times

  • North America : 5 - 8 business days
  • Europe : 6 - 10 business days

I'll do my best to meet these shipping estimates, but can't guarantee them. Actual delivery time will depend on the shipping method you choose.

Customs and import taxes

Buyers are responsible for any customs and import taxes that may apply. I'm not responsible for delays due to customs.

Payment Options

Secure options
  • Accepts Etsy gift cards

Returns & Exchanges

I gladly accept returns, exchanges, and cancellations

Just contact me within: 14 days of delivery

Ship items back to me within: 30 days of delivery

Request a cancellation within: 12 hours of purchase

But please contact me if you have any problems with your order.

The following items can't be returned or exchanged

Because of the nature of these items, unless they arrive damaged or defective, I can't accept returns for:

  • Custom or personalized orders

Questions about your order?

Please contact me if you have any problems with your order.

Privacy policy

You must provide me with certain information to fulfill your order, such as your name, email address, postal address and the details of the product that you’re ordering. You may also choose to provide me with additional personal information (for example, to discuss custom orders), if you contact me directly.

I do NOT retain, nor do I receive, your detailed payment information such as card number or billing address - only method of payment (eg. PayPal, credit card), and the amount paid as shown on your transaction receipt.

Your contact information, such as email and shipping address, may be shared with third party services such as mail/delivery companies (eg. Canada Post, USPS, Royal Mail, FedEx or Purolator), but only as necessary to provide you with their services to ensure timely delivery of your product.

I retain the information provided only for as long as necessary to provide you with my services and as described in my Privacy Policy. However, I may also be required to retain this information to comply with my legal and regulatory obligations, to resolve disputes, and to enforce my agreements. I generally keep your data for a time period of no more than 4 years.

If you wish to review the information I keep on file, you may contact me to receive a copy by email at, or via regular mail at the following address:

Jennifer Lowrie
254 Wilson Dr.
Milton, ON L9T 3K2

Frequently Asked Questions

What’s the best way to measure my neck?

Using a regular tape measure, have the two ends meet exactly where you’d like the lock to sit. If you happen to fall between sizes, go up to the next even number. And that’s it! Easy peasy :)

Can I wear my collar 24/7, even in the shower?

Sure! Just be sure to use the polishing cloth included with your order to polish up any silver parts regularly, and dry it thoroughly after a shower - especially around the edges where water can seep under the enamel. Ideally though, taking it off for showering and sleeping will help increase its life span significantly. Generally speaking, after about 6 months or so, the lock would need replacing with 24/7 wear, but can last years if it’s removed at shower & bed time.

Care instructions

Use the polishing cloth that’s included with your order to keep the lock looking shiny and new, and the chain cleans up easily with just a bit of soap and water.

Gift wrapping and packaging

Since I know most collars are given as gifts, your collar will arrive already gift boxed with a color coordinated box and tissue paper to keep it safe during transit. No invoice or packing slip will be included unless requested. Note cards for special messages are also available upon request :)

Reviews (7)


absolutely stunning it fits perfect and my gorgeous fiance loves it great service and communication thank you ill be sure to buy more stuff in the future😁😁😁😁

Beautiful piece of jewelry would definitely buy again

Wunderschön, das perfekte Geburtstagsgeschenk für meine Subby, hab lange nach etwas gesucht, dass nicht im Alltag sofort zu identifizieren ist. Es ist perfekt, es sind 2 Schlüssel dabei für das Schloss, es kam genau pünktlich an, hab aber zum Glück schon 14 Tage mehr eingerechnet, da der Zoll sich mal wieder Zeit gelassen hat in Frankfurt. Absute Kaufempfehlung Jeder Zeit wieder

Thank you, thank you Jen!!! Ordered this as a gift for my Kitten. Jen was great, responsive and accommodating. The package shipped on Monday afternoon and received in USA by Wednesday before noon. The quality is top notch and the collar in Sterling silver is beautiful. The chain comes with a sterling heart lock, I purchased additional locks, so she can switch them as she likes. Loved locking it around her neck and love that I have the key!! Thanks for making something she will enjoy for years to come!!!

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