BDSM Locking Submissive Day Collar in Silver and Lavender Purple


Shipping to United States: Free

Thrill your submissive with this feminine, eye-catching day collar exclusively from Brain of Jen! The serpentine chain is hand crafted using high quality silver and lavender purple anodized aluminum rings, creating a feel that is smooth, sleek and incredibly lightweight. Aluminum is an ideal metal for permanent day collars, as it's hypoallergenic and easy to care for - if it gets dull or dirty, just a little soap and water cleans it up good as new!

The collar closes in front with a nickel silver heart shaped working padlock that has been adorned on one side with a stunning, sparkly lavender finish that glimmers and glints in the light with every movement, resembling an amethyst drusy gemstone. The finish is protected with a coat of clear enamel. If nickel sensitivities are an issue, just let me know and I'd be happy to add a coat of enamel over the key hole side of the lock as well to protect the skin, at no extra charge!

Please keep in mind this piece is meant to be worn strictly as a day collar! While it is durable enough for 24/7 wear, it's not meant to be used for breath play or restraint. The chain WILL break if pulled hard enough - this is a feature meant to protect your submissive should they run into a situation where the chain gets hooked or caught and they don't have a key handy to remove the lock, as there is no clasp.

This collar is also available in black! Check it out here:

Custom orders are always welcome! If you'd like to personalize your collar feel free to contact me via the "Ask a question" button above, or email me directly at brainofjen [!at] I respond to all requests within 24 hours.

Shipping from Canada

Processing time

1-2 weeks

Estimated shipping times

  • North America : 5 - 8 business days
  • Europe : 6 - 10 business days

I'll do my best to meet these shipping estimates, but can't guarantee them. Actual delivery time will depend on the shipping method you choose.

Customs and import taxes

Buyers are responsible for any customs and import taxes that may apply. I'm not responsible for delays due to customs.

Payment Options

Secure options
  • Accepts Etsy gift cards

Returns & Exchanges

I gladly accept returns, exchanges, and cancellations

Just contact me within: 14 days of delivery

Ship items back to me within: 30 days of delivery

  • Custom or personalized orders
  • Questions about your order?

    Please contact me if you have any problems with your order.

    Privacy policy

    You must provide me with certain information to fulfill your order, such as your name, email address, postal address and the details of the product that you’re ordering. You may also choose to provide me with additional personal information (for example, to discuss custom orders), if you contact me directly.

    I do NOT retain, nor do I receive, your detailed payment information such as card number or billing address - only method of payment (eg. PayPal, credit card), and the amount paid as shown on your transaction receipt.

    Your contact information, such as email and shipping address, may be shared with third party services such as mail/delivery companies (eg. Canada Post, USPS, Royal Mail, FedEx or Purolator), but only as necessary to provide you with their services to ensure timely delivery of your product.

    I retain the information provided only for as long as necessary to provide you with my services and as described in my Privacy Policy. However, I may also be required to retain this information to comply with my legal and regulatory obligations, to resolve disputes, and to enforce my agreements. I generally keep your data for a time period of no more than 4 years.

    If you wish to review the information I keep on file, you may contact me to receive a copy by email at, or via regular mail at the following address:

    Jennifer Lowrie
    254 Wilson Dr.
    Milton, ON L9T 3K2

    Frequently Asked Questions

    What’s the best way to measure my neck?

    Using a regular tape measure, have the two ends meet exactly where you’d like the lock to sit. If you happen to fall between sizes, go up to the next even number. And that’s it! Easy peasy :)

    Can I wear my collar 24/7, even in the shower?

    Yes! I make all my collars suitable for 24/7 wear; I use anodized aluminum for the chains because it’s hypoallergenic, doesn’t rust or tarnish, and can be cleaned easily with soap and water. Just be sure to use the polishing cloth included with your order to polish up the lock regularly, and dry it thoroughly after a shower - especially around the edges of the lock where water can seep under the enamel. Ideally though, taking it off for showering and sleeping will help increase its life span significantly. Generally speaking, after about 6 months or so, the lock would need replacing with 24/7 wear, but can last years if it’s removed at shower & bed time.

    Care instructions

    Use the polishing cloth that’s included with your order to keep the lock looking shiny and new, and the chain cleans up easily with just a bit of soap and water.

    Gift wrapping and packaging

    Since I know most collars are given as gifts, your collar will arrive already gift boxed with a color coordinated box and tissue paper to keep it safe during transit. No invoice or packing slip will be included unless requested. Note cards for special messages are also available upon request :)

    Reviews (4)


    Beautiful work, shipped quickly, arrived on time. Great product

    Very pleased with the quality. This is my second purchase of necklaces..

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